As an independent author, I'm always searching for ways to create news events. Those events that bring my books to the public. I've sat at book fairs, and comic
cons. There were advertisements, and book catalogues. Who can forget the tweeting and sharing on social media? I can't tell you how many marketing promos have led to free Kindle Fires for participating bloggers that I've given away. All in all, the results have been varied.
Now I'm looking for new ways to create news events that are different, fun and worthwhile.
Opportunities come from anywhere, by simply retweeting and sharing an author's book posts. Or aggressively advertising on Facebook and Twitter. Maybe a friend direct messaged an opportunity based on a shared interest. Or sometimes you just stumble across something interesting, different and new.
Where the idea is born doesn't matter, as long as you seize the opportunities as they cross your path. You never know where it could lead.
So when you say yes to the news events as you find them, in time you share those websites and links with others to spread the news. Please, visit and share these sites and the great work these bloggers and reviewers do.
Trisha Sugarek, Writer at Play: MY BLOGS feature INTERVIEWS with best-selling AUTHORS! Did you miss the past few months? November was best selling author, Grace Burrowes and in December, Reed Farrel Coleman, contributing writer for Robert B. Parker series. January is Dinah Jefferies and February’s author is Sheryl Steines.
Midwest Book Review: “Established in 1976, the Midwest Book Review is an organization committed to promoting literacy, library usage, and small press publishing. The MBR publishes the following monthly book review magazines specifically designed for community and academic librarians, booksellers, and the general reading public:”
ThreeifbySpace.net: Need a Good Read? Books by Outlander Fans Fill the Bill
“We’re a reading bunch. I like big books, and I cannot lie… of course, we all love Diana’s books (or why else are we here!), but many of her fans are authors themselves. And since November is the month to turn yourself into an author – it’s NaNoWriMo, National Novel Writing Month – it seemed appropriate to introduce you to some Outlander fans who have taken that big leap and put out their talent for you to enjoy. Here’s a good selection of books written by fellow Outlander fans that are available to purchase and read (some of the books are free for Kindle users!) – support your friends! This is, I’m sure, not a complete list – if you have a published (self or traditional) book, feel free to leave info in the comments! Click on book titles to learn more and buy?” by Erin Conrad https://www.threeifbyspace.net/2016/11/need-good-read-books-outlander-fans-fill-bill/
Is confidence something we're born with, or is it something we grow within ourselves when we are surrounded by a loving family, friends, society? Is it always with us or does it wane over time or experiences? I think about that as I examine my life, my choices, my career.
At seven, I knew I wanted to be a writer. Everything I did was leading me to that career. I wrote in my spare time, I became and English major, worked as a technical writing intern. I worked as a technical writer when I graduated.
Regardless of what I had done over the course of my life, I always stayed close to writing. It was what I was told I was good at since I was young, it was what I enjoyed the most and it gave me confidence. Some of the best jobs I had involved writing, whether it was business letters, technical manuals or user guides, there was a pride that came with learning a job and translating that for others to learn from. So when did the confidence wane and leave?
Bad jobs, fractured relationships, the death of a child, there are so many things that eat away at confidence, that leave a black cloud over your head, that suck the light and life away.
A series of bad events, of loss, left me paralyzed. And yet when the confidence was at its lowest, I decided to put myself out there, expose myself and write again. I needed to be reminded that I wanted to write a book and when I was, I did. To do that requires honesty and being open with the world in hopes that you find your audience.
You throw yourself out there when you publish your book whether you have a publisher or you self-publish. You read the reviews and you meet other authors and bloggers who can help you attract readers. Its raw and scary, terrifying and sometimes your read a review that is hard to stomach and you can't speak for a week.
But there's something in my makeup that when the confidence is lacking, propels me forward and keeps me writing. It's a manufactured confidence, when I believe that I'm strong enough to keep writing, marketing and planning for that dream future.
Confidence is a tricky thing. It can be strong or it can be weak. We can be slaves to it or we can overpower it. I've never overpowered mine at least not until recently. I no longer wanted to watch other accomplish what I could only dream about. I wanted more. Even when the confidence leaves, I've learned to fake it. Negative self-talk can break you and positive self-talk even if you have to pretend for a while is better than none at all.
Because somewhere along the way I realized that I can do whatever I set out to do, I just have to believe in myself. Even if I have to fake it once and awhile.Continue reading
I regret one thing. That I didn't follow my dream in my thirties. Forget that I had children, watched a baby die, suffered from post-partum. Those things shouldn't have stopped me from practicing and to be perfectly honest, writing about those experiences probably would have done me some good.
But I didn't and it wasn't those things that prevented me from writing and creating. It comes down to one reason fear as a result of the lack of self-confidence and not believing that I could do what I put my mind to. As a result of my regret I have an unrealistic time line in my head. At almost forty-six, I feel like time is running out.
To continue with my journey, I got myself a job which hindered my ability to write, because of time. As my time feels like it slips away, I feel as though I'm defeated, as if I'm giving up on my dream. Whether that's realistic or not, it sits in the pit of my stomach and keeps me awake at night.
We're hardest on ourselves, we expect perfection and when we don't achieve it, it messes with our minds. It messes with mine as the clock ticks down another sliver of time.
As my emotional half struggles with age and time, my rational side of myself realizes that it all comes down to confidence and a belief in myself. When it wanes, I need to remember the people in my circle, those that believe in me and in my vision. Because if not for me, for them, I keep pressing forward because that's how you push through the lack of self-confidence, let someone else carry you. For me it's my editors. As a writer you have somewhat of an intimate relationship with your editors. They know your books as well as you do, they understand you as a writer because you write what you know, what you feel and they become intimate with your characters as they assist you in crafting your story. I put my complete faith and trust in their words, their thoughts and their support. Without them I may have quit a long time ago.
We're always hardest on ourselves, because we want and we work and we hope that it comes out well. I fight the slivers of time that make up my life not because I fear the future but because I fear the past and time that I didn't allow myself to explore who I was and what I wanted to be. They tick down and I feel that pressure to accomplish something and do it soon.
It all comes down to confidence, finding it and keeping and letting that lead you forward.Continue reading