Editing: It’s Like Sending Your Baby to College

Editing: It’s Like Sending Your Baby to College

Editing a Book – Like Setting a Child Free

The mere idea of sending a book to editing is like sending your oldest child to college. You care for and nurture your child, feed and clothe them, heal their wounds, hold them when they cry. It’s 18 years of care, to unceremoniously drop them off and drive away.

I’m not joking.  Sending a book to the editor is much the same emotional roller coaster. I live with my book, everyday. I craft the story, I nurture the characters with words, I work the plot by adding conflict, I tear down my characters to let them rise up again. It’s an up and down roller coaster of emotions, of story, and it takes a lot of time and hard work. And then you send them to college.

So yes, finishing my book and emailing it off to the editor for editing, is much like raising my children. While I don’t tear my children down to build them up, I do hold them up when they fall and I encourage them when they need it. I’m there to nurture and raise them up.

After nurturing a book for a year (sometimes longer), you set it free. Let another set of eyes share in the story, connect with the characters, offer suggestions on how to improve the book. You know… editing. Sometimes the mere thought of having sent the book makes you break out in a cold sweat, jump on the computer and cry for the book back. “I’m not ready!” you might screech.

My Youngest Book

Though it’s not my last, my latest book was the one that had me up at night. After sending the book to my editor, I kept thinking, “It’s not ready.” “I’m not done.” “There’s so much more I could have written.” I waited an paced, much like I do when I’m trying to reach my child who leaves me an email, “There’s a problem mom,” but doesn’t tell me what that problem is. You pace, you worry, you wonder.

Eventually you reach your child. The editor finally sends you editor notes. The wait is worth it. The product is strong, can stand alone, and your child, much like your book is better than okay.

It’s the same roller coaster, children and writing. Both give you joy, both are pain. But in the end both are worth it.

Look for it! My newest book child is coming soon. November 1, 2018 on Amazon.com.

 

 

 

 

 

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