Self Help

Self Help

yodaThere’s twenty pages of books on Amazon about living as an introvert, marketing as an introvert, how to succeed as an introvert, public speaking for introverts, you get it, there’s a lot of books on how to live as an introvert. I’m not one for self-help books. I find them redundant because I really know what it is I need to do in order to change the circumstances of my life. At my age I’m also aware of who I am and what I can change. Having someone else spell it out for me, seems like a waste of time and money.

When I needed to lose weight I knew I needed to exercise and reduce my caloric intake. I did that. When I decided it was time to check #7 off of my bucket list, I sat down and wrote that book. For me there’s no more thinking about the things that need to be done. There can only be doing. So says Yoda from Star Wars Episode 5: The Empire Strikes Back.

“No! Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try.”

Self help books, videos or people, I don’t subscribe to them. I realize that people are looking for answers and are looking for a way to make changes for the better and that’s their option. Those books for me are a crutch. A way to feel like I’m accomplishing something without accomplishing anything besides finishing a book. The books themselves can lead you to water, lead you to the change, but only you can make a change. I know what I need to do in order to get to where I want to go. It doesn’t mean that I will get there, all it means is that I have to just do it, I just have to drink that water. If I’m lucky it will happen, if I’m not at least I…

I set the goal for myself, I will write everyday and I will complete my second book. Whether or not I become a successful writer, time will tell, but at least someday I’ll be able to look back and know that I did everything that I could to try to get there. My own self-help.

 

 

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